Showing posts with label Opening Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Opening Day. Show all posts

Thursday, March 27, 2014

"People who write about Spring Training not being necessary have never tried to throw a baseball" --Sandy Koufax

"Spring Training means flowers, people coming outdoors, sunshine, optimism, and baseball. Spring Training is a time to think about being young again." --Ernie Banks

With spring comes that old cliché of hope and newness. I could write a hackneyed piece about how everyone starts on an even playing field at Spring Training and that anyone can make the team, but I won't. I could talk about the fresh-faced rookie at his first camp and the feelings that he must experience when he gets to play with his idols for the first time, but again I won't. I could even talk about how the Yankees must have put out a call for players with epic names because somehow they've wrangled Zoilo, Zelous, and Adonis into the same clubhouse. But...

...I won't. You’re lucky, too, because I wanted to write a short story that starred Zoilo, Zelous, and Adonis as gods of a mythical land made only of baseball diamonds. It would look something like this.




Instead, let’s talk about the strangeness of baseball fandom.

Baseball fans love Spring Training. Other sports don’t do preseason the way that baseball does. There are exhibition games and camps and practices, but Spring Training is a unique and storied culture that’s as big a thrill for fans as the World Series. It’s because of all of the cheesy things I’ve already mentioned and so many more. This year, Spring Training was a totally new and different experience for me. I got to go to my first Spring Training game a couple weeks ago, and I have a friend who’s been in a big league camp all spring. In prior years, I’ve just watched Spring Training from my couch, a bar, or my bed (I sleep with MLB Network on, but that’s not much of a confession). This year, though, has been a new and interesting perspective on the game in its training phase, and I’m sad to see it come to an end. While I’m ready to see how things go in the regular season and to see if this friend of mine makes a mark in the Majors (since we’re down to the end, I’m not jinxing him by giving details here. You know how baseball players are with their superstitions. We’ll revisit this another time), I love the laidback vibe of the game I attended this March at Champion Stadium, and I love that I just turned around and started talking to the two old guys behind me like we were old pals. That’s baseball, though. Baseball is sunny afternoons in crowded seats. Baseball is overpriced beer in souvenir cups and awkward early spring tan lines. Baseball is conversations with strangers to fill the breaks between innings—but not because it’s dull. Because it’s part of the game. Baseball fans are the sharing type. We share stories, statistics, and factoids, but it’s never really a competition. It’s more of a collective. It’s a gathering of people whose passion for a game means having a head full of facts that are useless to anyone outside that collective. When we get together in a ballpark, we thrive on each other’s information.

“This guy pitching had Tommy John two years ago when he was in college. He looks stronger than ever now.”

“That top-ranked prospect they put all that money into is hitting below the Mendoza line for the spring. Hope it’s just growing pains.”

“This guy’s dad played minor league ball in the Reds organization; it’s really great to see his kid getting a shot now.”

“Their designated hitter lost 25 pounds in the off season. Now he’s stealing bases like Henderson.”

These kinds of statements about perfect strangers are only important among perfect strangers who are just as perfectly strange. In other words, your friends and family don’t care, but other baseball fans do. That’s what sets baseball apart from other sports in my experience. I could be wrong, but it’s only at baseball games that I’ve turned in my seat to face a group of people I’d never seen before and struck up a conversation. Well, it’s the only place I’ve done it successfully. In most other situations, you’re just as likely to get a confused glare as an answer, but at a baseball game, you’re likely to make a friend.

At least for the next nine innings. Then you’re likely to go on your merry way. Or, as in a handful of cases, you make a lifelong friend who you can call the next time you’re in town so neither of you has to go to the game alone. Maybe it’s the pace of the game. Maybe it’s baseball’s aging fan base. I’d like to believe it’s the invisible connection between people who know the game. I’d rather believe in a divine intervention that bonds me to other baseball fans even before we cross paths. It’s more poetic that way, and baseball is always poetry.

Next week, that poetry takes on a different tone. The games start to really count. We get to watch our old heroes do what they do best, and we get to discover new heroes who might do it even better. We get to argue over pitch counts and starting rotations, old school stats and sabermetrics, and sometimes whose beard is most awesome. This is baseball. This is another year of dirt and diamonds, and I couldn’t be more ready if I tried.

Now someone sing the national anthem so we can PLAY BALL!



Wednesday, March 26, 2014

The memory is a fascinating thing

One of the things that’s kind of fun about revisiting a blog that’s essentially been dead for four years is looking at the abandoned drafts that are filled with either incomplete thoughts or just a title. I had four of them. I couldn’t place any of them at first, and the one with only a title was particularly intriguing.

The elusive title: “How ‘Wings’ Let Me Down: A Title With No ‘Love’ In It”

Um, what? What was I doing in April 2010 that involved wings and love? I had no idea for about an hour. Then I looked at the titles of the previous posts, and it did seem there was a lot of love flowing through them. Well, that was one mystery down. What’s up with these wings, though? I can’t connect baseball to wings nor can I connect 2010 to wings. I flew to Pennsylvania that year, but that wasn’t until months later. I don’t think I knew I was going in April.

I moved on after about an hour.

Then it hit me at 4 AM like a lot of great ideas do. I’m grateful I remembered. I’m not grateful that it was no longer so intriguing when I figured out what I was going to write about.


Wings…as in Baumhower’s Wings! If you’ve been around the state of Alabama, and you are a sports or chicken wings fan, you’ve probably been to a Baumhower’s. If not, I’ll just leave this right hereIf you didn't read that, Baumhower's was founded by Bob Baumhower, a former Alabama football player. It used to be called "Wings," but the name was changed in 2012 “in order to embrace the comprehensive and expansive menu featured at each restaurant.” This was also probably because the name “Wings” is stupid and conjures up thoughts of breastaurants. That’s just speculation and there’s nothing wrong with a good breastaurant now and again. More on that in a minute.

Anyway, why was I writing about them letting me down? Very simple.

They don’t show baseball.

Well, it’s not a policy per se, but they’re certainly not in any hurry to do so. They were one of four sports bars in Mobile at the time, and I was looking for a place to watch Opening Day. I started at Buffalo Wild Wings, who didn’t usually let me down. Their food isn't great, but they have more TVs than Best Buy. That night was trivia night, though, and those trivia folks really get in the way of a good ball game. The other bar, a local joint called Heroes that’s actually a pretty cool place, was downtown, about 10 miles from where I lived, so they were at the bottom of my list. They’ve since opened a location closer to where I lived, but that does me no good in 2014. Baumhower’s was the next choice based on location, so that’s where we went. The conversation with the hostess went something like this (mind you, I am taking some poetic license for narrative purposes since this was four years ago, but it’s the gist):

Me: “Hi! What games are you showing today?”

Hostess: “Games? Uh…”

Me: “Yeah, it’s Opening Day, and I’d love to watch some baseball. The Phillies played earlier so I will take whatever games are on tonight.”

Hostess: “Baseball? Well, we show the Braves sometimes…”

She began looking around for help. A manager quickly approached the stand. I told her what I had just told the hostess, and she said, “Well, we don’t have the MLB package or anything. We show Braves games when they’re playing on regular channels, but that’s it.”

Floored, I stared at her dumbfounded and trying to think of a follow up query. I had none, but I sputtered out, “So if I wanted to watch a baseball game that wasn’t the Braves but was on, say, ESPN or FOX, could you show THAT?”

“Only if there’s not a football game or something like that.”

Again, I was confused. “Who plays football in the summer?” She shrugged and said, “We watch the spring Bama game and the draft and stuff.”

Oh.

I just thanked them and left. We went to Hooters. Speaking of breastaurants. Told you I'd come back to that.

When I explained my experience to the hostess at Hooters, she said, “Honey, I got you,” and escorted us to the best table facing four of the biggest TVs, and she had the manager put a different baseball game on all four of them. 

I spent a lot of money in Hooters that night. I probably tipped our server 40%, but I was happy and they did right by me. I’m not saying that Baumhower’s was necessarily in the wrong because I knew they were a football-centric establishment. However, they also positioned themselves as a sports grill, and last I checked, that’s a plural on “sport” there, indicating there’s more than one kind.

In the end, what’s the lesson? What’s YOUR takeaway?

Not much. Just a couple tips:

1. If you’re looking for a good football game and you happen to be in Alabama, look for Baumhower’s. If you’re looking for rounder-shaped balls or black, hard disk-shaped things, go to Hooters.

2.  Don’t knock the breastaurants, man. Hooters has a model that works, and they don’t lack in customer service. 

Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Another hiatus

So I disappeared for a while yet again. Yeah, yeah. I get it. I'm not good at this.

I'll just blame school again and move on. I'm thinking of a new plan for this blog thanks to some conversations with a really good friend about the point of blogging. There are so many self-absorbed and pointless blogs out there (I won't name any), but thank goodness there are even more that have either a great message (Women Can Talk Sports, for example) or at least a fun mission (I'm looking at you, Mid Century Menu). So here's the new plan.

1. This will still be about baseball. The simple rationale for this is simply "because baseball," but let me elaborate anyway. I'm about halfway through my doctoral program, and no matter how mad I get at a paper, an assignment, a reading, or myself, I know that it's all for the greater good: baseball. That's been the motivation for this entire graduate school trip, and while my plans have changed a little, the world in which those plans live is still the game I love. It's what I understand best, and it's what connects me to the world. I'm pretty one-dimensional in that sense. Realistically, baseball is the driving force for a lot of my decisions, and I know that I'm not alone in that. I'm hoping to use this blog to convey not just to baseball fans but to acolytes of all things that there is something to be gained by committing to the thing that makes you happiest. For me, it's both a professional and a personal connection, and the overarching lesson to all of you is to never let anyone belittle what drives you. Baseball is a silly sport to some, but it's become a lifestyle for me and for many others. If any of us had listened to the voices around us and in our heads telling us to find something "more important," "better," "different," or even "less stupid," we'd all be unhappily pursuing something to get by rather than something to wake up to. It's the difference between living to work and working to live, really. How many times have you been frustrated by having to work a job you barely like instead of attending something you love? Well, the game of baseball has become both my job and my hobby, and while some may caution that this is a bad combination, I disagree wholeheartedly. I'm a huge advocate of turning whatever you love into a logical way to make a living. Yes, I get that this isn't an option for everyone, and in those cases, it becomes about incorporating that thing (whether it's baseball, basketball, or basket weaving; film, television, or music; or your family, friends, and home) into as much of your life and its accompanying decisions as possible. The key is never to let go. You can sacrifice when you have to, but never, ever let go of what gives you true joy.

2. There will be something here for you. I've fallen in love with autoethnography in the last year or so because I find it both cathartic for me and for readers. Well, at least that's how it should be. I've read some self-indulgent autoethnography (I've written some, too...I'm not immune), but I still like to believe the writers had a transformative end in mind despite what turned out to be poor execution. Anyway, the previously mentioned friend with whom I've talked about the merit of blogs and I are huge proponents of the notion that a blog should provide more to its readers than to its author. In the absence of use value, a blog is nothing more than a little girl's diary. Even a personal blog can provide something to its readers while the author works through her own issues. Take the case of a friend of mine whose blog is a site for self-exploration not just for her but for her readers as well. My plan, then, is to try and offer some insight into whatever topics arise from here on out. Whether it's a list of tips, a life lesson, or just the best seat in an obscure ballpark, I want readers to have at least one takeaway. Ellis (2004) defined the autoethnography as "research, writing, story, and method that connect the autobiographical and personal to the cultural, social, and political" (p. xix). I like her definition, and I plan to use it as a guide for what I post here. There will be some primary and secondary research, a lot of writing, and hopefully some good stories that will connect my experiences to the broader culture of baseball (and sport...and maybe life), the social structure of the game, and the politics that underlie its vast green diamonds. 

3. Finally, I want to hear your experiences. I am but one baseball devotee. You are many. My experiences are only one reality, and there's no value to privileging it over others. There will always be an invitation to share your own take on what I write or what I post from others. I only ask that you respect everyone involved in the conversation because I do reserve the right to remove anything that's abusive. Stupid stuff, I will leave. Abusive stuff is gone. 

With that, happy early Opening Day or as Jen Rainwater so poetically dubbed it, "The Wait." Let's enjoy this baseball season together! Can't wait to hear your stories!


References

Ellis, C. (2004). The Ethnographic I: A methodological novel about autoethnography. Walnut Creek: AltaMira Press.

Phillips, A. (2014). Simply Stated. Retrieved from: 
http://ampersandalso.com/

Rainwater, J. (2014) 2014: Life of a MLB season ticket holder: Why MLB Opening Day should be a national holiday.       Bullpen, Baseball and Sock Talk. Retrieved from: http://oakassocksgrl.blogspot.com/2014/03/2014-life-of-mlb-season-ticket-holder_24.html

(n.d) Women Can Talk Sports. Retrieved from: http://www.womencantalksports.com/blog/


Retroruth (2014) The Mid-century menu. Retrieved from: http://www.midcenturymenu.com/about/